​Phone: 631.332.2213
Email: Suezola@me.com
Letters From Betrayed Partners
I facilitate a writers group for betrayed partners. The purpose of reflecting on a variety of topics is to heal yourself by examining your core beliefs.
Post traumatic growth takes place as we transform the way we choose to understand and see ourselves and others with compassion.
The writers in this group have generously shared their personal stories.
Post traumatic growth takes place as we transform the way we choose to understand and see ourselves and others with compassion.
The writers in this group have generously shared their personal stories.
If you would like to add your own writings to this page please send them to me at suezola@me.com.
Writing can be cathartic.
NOTE: Each response is written by a betrayed partner that has anonymously shared.
EMOTIONAL IMPACT LETTERS WRITTEN AFTER FULL DISCLOSURE
PROMPT: Reflect on the serenity prayer and what it means to you. How do you use the prayer in your life to help with challenging situations?
Response 1: Response 1 - Serenity Prayer.pdf
Response 2: Response 2 - Serenity Prayer .pdf
Response 3: Response 3 - Serenity Prayer.pdf
Response 4: Response 4 - Serenity Prayer.pdf
PROMPT: Addiction.
Response 1: Response 1 - Addiction.pdf
Response 2: Response 2 - Addiction.pdf
Response 3: Response 3 - Addiction.pdf
PROMPT: Guilt and Shame.
Response 1: Response 1 - Guilt.pdf
PROMPT: Reflect on the following Victor Frankl Quote:
Response 1: Response 1 - Frankl Quote.pdf
PROMPT: Love.
Response 1: Response 1 - Love.pdf
Response 2: Response 2 - Love.pdf
Response 3: Response 3 - Love.pdf
PROMPT: Fidelity and Monogamy.
Response 1: Response 1 - Fidelity and Monogamy.pdf
PROMPT: Sexuality.
Response 1: Response 1 - Sexuality .pdf
PROMPT: What is my Relationship to Aging?
Response 1: Response 1 - What Is My Relationship To Aging_.pdf
PROMPT: Financial Security.
Response 1: Response 1 - Financial Security.pdf
PROMPT: Reflect on the following Mary Mannin Morrisey Quote:
Response 1: Response 1 - Mary Manin Morrissey Quote.pdf
PROMPT: Reflect on Fathers.
Response 1: Response 1 - Dad.pdf
PROMPT: Reflect on Mothers.
Response 1: Response 1 - Mom .pdf
PROMPT: Death.
Response 1: Death - Response 1.pdf
Response 2: Response 2 - Death.pdf
Response 3: Death - Response 3.pdf
PROMPT: Attachment Styles.
PROMPT:" The Four Agreements"
The Four Agreements are:
- Be Impeccable With Your Word.
- Don't Take Anything Personally.
- Don't Make Assumptions.
- Always Do Your Best.
PROMPT: Reflect on the following Don Miguel Ruiz Quote:
Response 1: Response 1 - Miguel Ruiz Quote.pdf
Contact
Susan Zola, LCSW, CCPS, CSAT
T: 631-332-2213
E: suezola@me.com
Licensed In: Arizona, Connecticut, Florida, Maine, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, New York, Texas, and Virginia
Credentials
Bachelor of Arts, Psychology – SUNY Binghamton, 1980
Master of Social Work – Adelphi University School of Social Work, 1982.
Private Practice – "Mind Over Matters," 2006.
LCSW License #078530-1
APSATS The Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists
CSAT Certified Sex Addiction Therapist
IITAP The International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals
CCPS Certified Clinical Partner Specialist
