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Formal Disclosure For Sex Addicts

If you have been faced with your partners discovery of your sexual betrayal, taking personal accountability and managing the possible consequences, will help you both heal. It will show your partner that you are willing to do the challenging work to restore trust and sanity. It is a way to begin to repair and rebuild your relationship and may lead to a stronger, more intimate coupleship than you had before.

Your partner may need a full formal disclosure from you- prepared with the help of a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) and an Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialist (APSATS) trained therapist and a Polygraph Test- to regain equal standing and mutual respect. If you and your partner want to heal your wounds, complete honesty and vulnerability in a safe non-judgemental environment is an important part of the process. 

Contrary to what you might have heard and believe, when traumatizing pieces of information come out a little bit at a time, as your partner starts investigating and searching for the truth, or when you and your partner are alone and she insists you tell her more, it may damage your relationship beyond repair. Finding out on her own will surely lead to the erosion of whatever trust is left between you.

Think carefully, instead of impulsively, to get the best results.

The following documents were created to help you in the full disclosure process:

Glossary Of Terms

SA Client Release of Information Form

SA Consent for Full Disclosure

SA Guidelines for Writing a Full Disclosure

Full Disclosure Worksheet for SA

SA Post-Full Disclosure Letter of Emotional Restitution Guidelines

Couples Weekly Check-In

Therapeutic Separation Guidelines and Form - If Needed

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Susan Zola, LCSW, CCPS, CSAT

T: 631-332-2213
E: suezola@me.com
Licensed in New York and Florida


Bachelor of Arts, Psychology – SUNY Binghamton, 1980
Master of Social Work – Adelphi University School of Social Work, 1982.
Private Practice – "Mind Over Matters," 2006.
LCSW License #078530-1
APSATS The Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists
Certified Sex Addiction Therapist
The International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals
Certified Clinical Partner Specialist

Susan Zola Clinical Partner Certification
Sex Addiction Formal Disclosure

Susan Zola, LCSW, CCPS, CSAT
Licensed in NY and FL

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